Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
You are part of a well-matched Silicon Valley partnership, drawn here by the unique opportunities to create technologies that change the world. Despite your proven ability to provide elegant solutions to high-impact problems at work, lately you can’t figure out what’s going on at home.
You are committed to your relationship, but something is amiss. There’s more conflict, perhaps with increasing heat, and less sex. Each conflict’s aftermath leaves you feeling stuck and frustrated.
If you find yourselves getting triggered during the moments when you need each other the most, then a highly effective couple therapy offers hope. My advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy gives us a new way of understanding your unique dance of disconnection.
In our sessions, you can expect to defuse the conflicts as we begin to understand what drives them. You may begin to see your conflict in terms of failed attempts to connect. You will learn to turn to your partner and say what you need in a way that invites connection.
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person,” wrote American writer Mignon McLaughlin. If you want to revitalize your love relationship, if you long to feel connected again, contact me and let’s get started.